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ESRB Ratings Explained for Parents and Grandparents

The letter on the box is only half the story. The lines underneath it tell you about the violence, the language, the in-game spending and whether strangers can talk to your child. Here's how to read all of it, in plain English.

By SIBTG Verdict DeskOctober 26, 20264 min read
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The short answerUse the rating letter as a first filter, then read the content descriptors and the interactive elements. For many families, 'Users Interact' and 'In-Game Purchases' matter more than the letter.

Part of a seriesThis is one chapter of The Non-Gamer's Guide to Buying a Video Game Gift. Start there if you're not sure what you need yet.

In the US and Canada, video games are rated by the Entertainment Software Rating Board (ESRB). Every rating has three parts: the age category, the content descriptors, and the interactive elements. Most people only look at the first part. The other two are where the useful detail is.

The rating letters

RatingWhat the ESRB saysIn practice
E EveryoneGenerally suitable for all agesMost Nintendo family games, racers, sports games, Bluey
E10+ Everyone 10+Generally suitable for ages 10 and upOften cartoon or fantasy violence. Minecraft, Kirby, Zelda and Astro Bot are all E10+.
T TeenGenerally suitable for ages 13 and upMore violence, some language, suggestive themes. Fortnite and Spider-Man 2 are T.
M Mature 17+Generally suitable for ages 17 and upIntense violence, blood and gore, strong language, sexual content. Call of Duty and GTA VI are M.
AO Adults Only 18+Suitable only for adultsVery rare on consoles
RP Rating PendingNot yet ratedOnly seen in advertising before release. "RP – Likely Mature 17+" means it's expected to be M.
Don't over-read E10+

A lot of beloved family games are E10+ for cartoon-style violence: bonking enemies, fantasy battles, slapstick. Plenty of families share these with younger kids, especially when a parent plays along. The descriptors tell you whether it's "Cartoon Violence" or something heavier, and that's what to decide on.

Content descriptors: the "why"

Under the letter, the ESRB lists content descriptors explaining what earned the rating. They're things like Fantasy Violence, Cartoon Violence, Blood, Mild Language, Suggestive Themes, Crude Humor or Use of Drugs.

Interactive elements: spending and strangers

This is the part most parents miss, and often the part that matters most. Interactive elements describe what a game does, not what it shows. They don't change the rating letter, so an E game can still carry them.

LabelWhat it means
In-Game PurchasesThe game offers things to buy with real money, like extra levels, outfits, currency or season passes.
In-Game Purchases (Includes Random Items)Some purchases are a surprise: loot boxes or card packs where you don't know what you'll get before you pay. Sports games like Madden, EA Sports FC and NBA 2K are rated E but carry this label.
Users InteractPlayers may be exposed to unfiltered content from other users, including chat. This is the label to look for if you're worried about strangers.
Shares LocationThe game can show the player's location to other users.
Unrestricted InternetThe product offers open access to the internet, such as a web browser.
The big one

The rating covers what's in the game itself, not what other players say or do. A cheerful E-rated game with "Users Interact" can still put a child in contact with strangers. Parental controls, not the rating, are how you manage that.

How to check any game in two minutes

  1. Go to esrb.org and search the game's name, or use the free ESRB app on iOS or Android.
  2. Find the version for the right console. Different versions occasionally carry different labels.
  3. Read the rating summary if there is one. It's a short plain-English description of what's actually in the game. Many digital-only games don't have one.
  4. Check the interactive elements line for purchases and user interaction.
  5. For extra peace of mind, watch a few minutes of gameplay on YouTube. Seeing the game moving tells you a lot.

Parental controls do the rest

Every major platform has a free phone app for parents. Setting it up before the gift is opened is far easier than after. Our setup checklist covers the timing.

PlatformAppKey controls
PlayStationPlayStation Family appDaily playtime limits, monthly spending caps, age-based content presets, communication settings, activity reports
XboxXbox Family Settings appScreen-time schedules, purchase requests and spending, approving friends, online multiplayer controls, activity reports
NintendoNintendo Switch Parental Controls appPlay-time limits, restricting games by rating, and on Switch 2, approving who can use GameChat
Steam / PCSteam FamiliesWhich games a child can access, store and chat restrictions, playtime limits, purchase requests

Real examples from popular games

To show how the pieces fit together, here's how some of this year's popular gift games are labeled on esrb.org:

Ready to choose? See our picks for ages 3–5, 6–8, 9–12 and teens.

Quick answers

What age is E10+?

E10+ means the ESRB considers the game generally suitable for ages 10 and up. Many popular family games, including Minecraft, several Kirby games and Donkey Kong Bananza, are rated E10+, usually for cartoon or fantasy violence. Read the descriptors to see why.

Is a T-rated game OK for a 12-year-old?

T means generally suitable for 13 and up. Whether a particular T game is right for a 12-year-old is a parent's call. Read the content descriptors, look at the rating summary on esrb.org, and check whether it includes online chat.

Does the ESRB rating cover online chat?

No. The rating covers the game's own content, not what other players say or do. The 'Users Interact' label is the warning that a game lets players communicate or share content, and parental controls are how you manage it.

Where can I look up a game's rating?

Search the game at esrb.org. Its page lists the rating, the content descriptors and the interactive elements, and many games also have a plain-English rating summary. The ESRB also has a free app for iOS and Android.

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